Risking Safety

How easy it is to be "our best selves!" isolated in our own rooms with the curtains drawn and everything sailing along smoothly; it's comforting to feel in control and safe. But, as Charles Ringma writes: We can create a very safe world for ourselves. We establish our work routines. Cultivate a few friendships. Develop certain family…

Learning patience

The last few weeks, I've had uninterrupted time to meditate in the morning and write in the afternoon here in beautiful Costa Rica where the national slogan is pura vida -- pure life, enjoy life. Have you had this experience -- in a place where you feel comfortable and at peace with plenty of time…

To truly meet someone

We have given up trying to meet others; we just meet ourselves. We don’t recognize each other because other people have become our permanent mirrors. … As for me, I implore fate to give me the chance to see beyond myself and truly meet someone. Muriel Barbery, The Elegance of the Hedgehog Another quote from…